How do you feel when someone helps you with a task?
What do you value most in a friend?
What’s the best compliment you could receive?
What makes you feel most connected to someone?
What’s your favorite part of a holiday?
What’s the best way to show someone you care?
When you’re upset, what helps the most?
What’s your ideal way to spend time with your partner?
What’s most meaningful in a relationship?
What’s your favorite kind of surprise?
How do you prefer to celebrate a win?
How do you express love to others?
How do you feel most loved?
Discover Your Love Language in Just 20 Questions
Words of Affirmation
You feel most loved when people use kind and encouraging words. Compliments, heartfelt messages, and open communication are your love language. You thrive when others express their appreciation verbally.
Quality Time
You value meaningful time with loved ones above all else. Whether it’s a deep conversation or a fun adventure, your love language is undivided attention. For you, presence is the best present.
Physical Touch
You feel most connected through physical affection. Hugs, kisses, or even a reassuring pat on the back make you feel deeply loved and secure. Physical closeness is how you bond with others.
Acts of Service
You appreciate when people go out of their way to help you. Whether it’s running an errand, fixing something, or just lending a hand, actions speak louder than words for you. Support through effort makes you feel cared for.
Love languages highlight the unique ways each person experiences love. Whether it’s a heartfelt compliment, spending quality time together, a thoughtful gift, or a helpful act, everyone’s approach is different. Knowing your primary love language can strengthen bonds and build lasting relationships by understanding the emotional needs of yourself and those around you. Take the quiz and discover the language that resonates most with your heart.
Did You Know?
The concept of love languages was popularized by Dr. Gary Chapman, who identified five distinct ways people express and receive love: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. Understanding your own love language—and the love languages of those around you—can strengthen relationships and foster deeper connections. When you know how you feel most loved, you can communicate your needs more effectively, building happier and more fulfilling bonds.
How to Play
Simply answer each question by selecting the option that feels most like you. At the end of the quiz, you’ll find out which love language resonates most with your personality. Share your results with loved ones, and encourage them to take the quiz too—learning about each other’s love languages can lead to more meaningful connections and understanding in all types of relationships.
